My first reaction is that A: I’m all for natural childbirth without painkillers for people who want to go that way. And B: I consider myself very liberal about sexual things between consenting adults, as long as they’re not hurting anybody.
I may not want to buy a sex swing with a ball gag mask, but if you do, hey, swing away in your furry plushie giant squirrel costume!
Apparently, these couples are planning this amazing “O” ahead of time and during the birth the partner touches the woman romantically, etc. I guess massaging her boobies. For God’s sake, I hope not her clit in front of the doctors!
Am I the only one who thinks that the poor baby is just trying to get OUT AND BREATHE OXYGEN for the first time and that maybe the mother trying to get sexual pleasure out of it is a little selfish?
I mean, can’t the friggin’ baby just be born and grow up before being used as a sex toy? And for God’s sake, don’t tell that kid when they do grow up! Gross!
I envy women who can have babies naturally and easily without too much horrifying pain. I myself am terrified of pain, I’ve had way too much of it in my female organs due to a bad condition called Endometriosis, which I’ve had since high school and caused me excruciating pain during my monthly periods until I had surgery for it in my late 20′s.
For that reason and others I was fine with having a C-section (I had an emergency one due to yet another condition I had called preeclampsia during pregnancy which can cause you to “stroke out” and worst case, can case death to both mother and baby.)
But even if I had not had an emergency C, I TOTALLY would’ve gone for the epidural, which I loved. I’d take one right now if they’d give it to me.
I guess my thinking is, you want an alive, healthy baby and if you get an amazing feeling from it, awesome bonus girlfriend, but first let’s just focus on keeping your newborn healthy and alive.
I understand that the birth canal is the same place certain things go IN to give us pleasure, so the baby’s head is hitting all of those same spots, in theory.
But by that same token, it’s nice to have your neck stroked, but having somebody pound it with a small watermelon doesn’t feel so hot, does it?
Well, to each her own. I’m just glad I don’t have any awkward birth sex video I have to hide and hope my kiddo never discovers when he’s 16.